How many of us women long for a real man? Not those who act like little boys, but someone who has strength to love us unconditionally despite our imperfections. It’s not easy to love someone who has a traumatic and painful history. It is such a simple thing to just listen and support someone. I am a living breathing woman; not just what my lover sees on the outside. If you can’t love my light and my dark; please do not waste my time. I have been hurt by men who either were aggressive, or passive through silence. Silence says that anyone can do or say whatever they want to your love. What ever happened to real men? I know that you exist out there, so how about you be the partners, and fathers that I know you can. We need you to be the heroes in our shared life adventure.